October 8th, 2017

‘You’re amazing... I don’t know how you do it... you’re Superwoman!’
These things I hear all the time. You know what? I’m not. I’m just a Mum, trying to do the best for her child. If your child was having trouble with a maths problem, you would help them. If your child needed help to make friends because they were so shy, you would help them. If your child was sick, you would take them to the doctor or the hospital and help them.
My child sometimes needs help. So I help her. I help her because I love her, and I want everyone else to see just how much worth she has. I help her because she will have dreams and aspirations and I don’t want her to think she can’t achieve them. I help her because it’s my instinct, as a Mum, to protect her. I help her because if she doesn’t learn to try, she won’t learn that failing is okay. Failing is okay because you get up and try again. And again. And again.
I’m not Supermum. I’m just like you. So is Emma.

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